Amazing Journey: Mike McIntyre’s ‘The Kindness Of Strangers: Penniless Across America’

'The Kindness Of Strangers: Penniless Across America' by Mike McIntrye (Amazon)

‘The Kindness Of Strangers: Penniless Across America’ by Mike McIntyre (Amazon)

In 1994, 37-year-old journalist Mike McIntyre had a good life in San Francisco – except for one major problem:

If I were told I was going to die today, I’d have to say I never took a gamble. I played life too close to the vest.

That awful feeling stemmed from another major, and life-long, problem:

I’ve been afraid my whole life.

I was born scared.

Driven to tears one day while thinking about this, McIntyre decided to take drastic action by resigning from his job and traveling across the United States by hitchhiking and walking – but with one very challenging condition:

I’ll go from the Pacific to the Atlantic without a penny. A cashless journey through the land of the almighty dollar. If I’m offered money, I’ll refuse it. If I see a coin in the road, I’ll step over it. I’ll accept only rides, food and a place to rest my head. Wait and see, it’ll work.

And so, on 6 September 1994, McIntyre set off from foot from San Francisco to Cape Fear, North Carolina. Why Cape Fear?

[It’s] a symbol for all the fears I know I’ll have to conquer if I’m to go the distance. If I make it to Cape Fear, it will be as a different man from the one who starts the journey.

The Kindness of Strangers: Penniless Across America, first published in 1996 and revised in 2010 and 2014, is McIntyre’s wonderful account of what would turn out to be an amazing journey indeed.

In his straight-forward and highly-readable style, McIntyre recounts the many and varied experiences he had – and most of all, the many and varied people he met. A few weren’t kind at all – but to McIntyre’s astonishment and gratitude, many of the strangers he met were. Some of them were living happy and well, while some of them were not (and in several cases the stories of their lives are truly heartbreaking) – but whatever their reasons, they helped McIntyre in their own ways and transformed him indeed.

Compelling, engrossing, hilarious and moving, The Kindness of Strangers comes highly recommended from this reader.

As well, McIntyre’s book resonated with me in two ways.

One way relates to my long walks around Sydney. Although my walks are very different in concept I’ve found them rewarding for their own reasons – and although I usually keep to myself with a focus on endurance and sight-seeing, like McIntyre did I’ve also met remarkable people.

The second way relates to McIntyre’s life-long fear of everything. I’ve mentioned this above, but near the end of Chapter 20 he writes more, and powerfully, about this subject. I could quote a lot of it but I’ll restrict myself to the following two paragraphs:

(Following a painful experience McIntyre had after finishing college) My fear of physical pain was replaced by a fear of life in general. I was afraid of making the choices it takes to be happy. There were things I thought I might enjoy doing, but I’ll be damned if I could summon the courage to try them. My life had stalled before it ever started…

Years later I happened upon a quote by Franz Kafka: “From a certain point on there is no longer any turning back. That is the point that must be reached.”

Like McIntyre, one of my biggest problems in life has been the fear of everything – which in turn led to other problems.

As well, back in late 1994 when McIntyre set off on his journey, I was halfway through not only my first post-university decade but also what is still the crappiest decade of my life thus far (including the truly wretched job I was just about to start).

Finally, as I’ve previously written about here, last year I had my feelings of mid-life crisis so I can also very much appreciate Kafka’s quote above.

Fortunately, like the action that McIntyre took, my long walks have helped to make my life better.

Until next time, stay well and take care 🙂


About blackandblueman

Black and Blue Man lives in Sydney, New South Wales, Australia
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